Break Up !

This post is inspired by co-blogger Jitendra Vaswani’s post on 7 rules to forget someone you love. Although his tips are very serious and practical ones but somehow as my Block phase is over , I found a cartoon knocking my brains while I was reading. Hence I am sharing my words on Break-Ups and the cartoon which knocked off the doors of my brains to come out online Β ! Β πŸ˜€

Break-Ups are NORMALLY(not always) results of extra consumption of love by any ONE in the couple for the other partner. Extra love leads to extra care, extra care to extra possessiveness, extra possessiveness to extra smothering, extra smothering leads to extra ordinary suffocation and this continues with verbal fights in private and then in public.The cycle continues until Β BANG – “Break Up !!”notice is being served to the partner who had that extra love issue.

So the moral of the story is either throw up the extra love, daily, you develop for your partner in the washroom or distribute the extra love to someone else as well, without being caught.

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However, if you have already had gone through the ‘break-up process’ repeat the ‘throwing up in the washroom process’ till all the love is flushed out. Β πŸ˜€

What next !! Start Fresh !!

Note – the post is meant to be taken lightly ! πŸ˜€

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104 responses on “Break Up !

    1. My Say

      hahaha.. kabhi hasaane ka .. kabhi daraane ka .. isich ka naam jindagi hai bhau πŸ˜€
      hahaha πŸ™‚
      thank you AJ your compliments are inspiring for betterment !!

  1. majaal

    i completely agree with you , when someone gets into a relationship, he/she should be prepared for the best and the worst especially in these times when we see people taking U turns in relationships.Girlfriend gets fat and guy is getting more beautiful girl she gets dumped , other way round if a girl is getting a more rich and good looking guy the boyfriend gets dumped. So why harm yourself and waste your emotions when some mean guy or girl dumps you.

    1. My Say

      better sing a song Dil Dumping Dumping Dumping Dapaang .. Flirting Flirting Flirting Fatang !! πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€
      Sorry I know that was a poor joke !! πŸ˜€
      this IPL sng with Farah asking people Dance ne ka !! hahaha

  2. Bushra

    Ha ha! But It’s sad actually that relationships which start with so much expectations and promises end up in bundles of sorrow, havoc and hatred……..

    Once you were my friend, now u are my foe,
    Once i loved everything about you,
    Now i hate YOU!
    Why did this happen……what went wrong…
    was i wrong or was it destiny or was it just lust and not love……
    Whatever it may be but i Hate you now and we are done!!!

    πŸ™ πŸ™ πŸ™

    Great doodle πŸ™‚

    1. My Say

      I wrote the remedy for avoiding these hangovers !! Bush !! follow them strictly πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€ ..
      Indeed .. its easier said than done .. to hate is obvious ..as its just to hide the love you still have for that special one .. As I say cry out LOUD and as long as you wish to .. on terrace or when alone at home … for 3-5 times .. it sheds away the hangover of gone by relationship .. allows you to forgive.. allows you not to remorse .. allows you to MOVE ON !!

      1. Bushra

        Ha ha ha! I was just trying to be a bit creative in commenting like you but this reply of yours has come as a facepalm! I’ll be careful next time!

        1. My Say

          he hehe dear it was in General … I did not intended as a remedy for YOU specifically !! πŸ™‚
          creative in commenting and me ?? AAhh!! Kabhi nahi !! πŸ˜€

  3. chaitanya

    Haha! That, along with the fattiest chips, is how I dealt with breakups …It works- the pain of the hangover makes you forget the pain of the break up, and the relief after the hangover’s gone makes you feel happy to be alive… always a positive thought!

    1. My Say

      πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€
      I tried fine tuning myself till my 11th break up Chaitanya and then when the 12th break up took place .. i decided change my path … not like changing preferences .. πŸ˜€ πŸ™‚ but enjoying singlehood
      Until.. my friends suggested me marriage and I opted Blogging !!! πŸ˜€ Keeps you equally busy !! Needs all the pamper and love and makes you feel good when people appreciate your blog !! πŸ˜€ you also need to be committed ! The best part it never hinted a Break-UP !! πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€
      Thanks for dropping by dear friend !!! πŸ™‚

  4. geetashree chatterjee

    The foot note was perhaps a strategic afterthought…politically correct….but an absolute overkill…your doodle says it all………… Well you do need moms to nurse a broken heart, joint whatever…..

    Throwing up in the washroom or getting doused in self pity behind the shower curtain, the tap should always be left open in full force…

    1. My Say

      πŸ˜€
      In that case.. i suppose break ups should not occur in summers of India.. specifically if you are not a resident of Bengal, Kerela and North East India.. rest almost all the states face water crises and expecting water through the tap and that too in full force would be too much of a demand πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€
      Rain God listen to the urge of break up guys and girls !! πŸ˜€

      1. gc1963

        Well there are overhead tanks…underground boring…trespass on neighbour’s water harvesting instruments…all legal as well illegal means to get that torrential downpour unless you are in the midst of Thar………….wahaan bhi koi jugaad mil jaaye shayad, y’ never know, we Indians are so adept at getting what we want by hook or by crook.

        On a personal note I salute your dry ( wet!!) sense of humour…that’s what probably keeps us going….isn’t it?

  5. anjan roy

    As always you taken up a serious issue and have politely done the doodling with a moral…yes i too believe people should learn…to unlearn the love that caused them all the troubles…!!!

        1. My Say

          how dare it Indrani my friend? .. I will take it for a task right away !! I am thankful to you for walking that extra mile commenting … dear friend .. and not get annoyed .. thank you so much .. πŸ™‚

    1. My Say

      you young chaps of the date.. never miss a chance .. we used to be so decent 10 years back πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€ …
      we only had a casual girlfriend.. a permanent one and few here and there to flirt with .. πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€

  6. InnerDialect

    :)))) You write like a Doodle .. any comment here would spoil what you just said… having said that, let me spoil it a bit, and say : I wish we all had more steel in our hearts, na ?

    1. My Say

      I dont know if thats a compliment dear friend of higher intellect.. but my doodling heart would surely consider it a beautiful compliment.

      regarding the heart of steel umm let me see it this way :

      A heart of steel ..
      with brains thinking glittering gold
      our body pure robotic..
      never to grow old..
      where love was alike amid partners..
      trust was never sold..
      else better .. be a heart of steel
      I say loud and bold πŸ˜‰

    1. My Say

      indeed Brendan !! at least no better way a doodler can suggest πŸ˜€
      Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts !!
      Appreciate it !! πŸ™‚

    1. My Say

      nahi re !! but I was never a Casanova too victimizing womankind and forcing them to shed tears for me .. I mean I wanted to .. God never bothered . πŸ˜€

    1. My Say

      Thank You dear friend … and thanks a ton for noticing the mischievousness on Indi while publishing the post πŸ˜€
      Some may have thought … thank God at last he left !! πŸ˜€ for this month until they may have realized only 5 hrs were left to call it a day !:D

    1. My Say

      love is ideally as intoxicating as alcohol itself may be more .. i suppose .. better consume a peg or two and only in parties and get togethers πŸ˜€

  7. Renu Vyas (@vyas_renu)

    Pyar ka bhi ek nasha hota hai and it gives us an high..but just as an overdose of alcohol kills..I guess an overdose of love too can smother one..thus killing the beauty of a relationship πŸ™‚ And I love the cartoons !

  8. Valli

    Very true! Though I’m single I know the problems lovers face these days since most of my friends are committed πŸ˜› You made a good point. In love everyone are possessive but over-possessiveness isn’t good. One needs to give them the space they need. Let them breathe! Lovely doodle Mysay! πŸ™‚

  9. Sfurti

    πŸ˜€ Not only do I love the depiction, I also love the write up with it. I was going to ask you to do this…you always have such wonderful things to say on my post and I rarely see you express your work in words…do it more often please….great post dear

    1. My Say

      thank you for that wonderful compliment Sfurti,my dear friend!!
      Amid eminent writers ( like yourself πŸ™‚ )it would be too courageous to dare using words to express emotions .. I suppose ! Compliments inspire and inspirations instigate for experiments..however, experiments may go wrong as well πŸ˜€ .. Still .. i will no more refrain from using words and sentences and phrases as my weapons of expressing My Say πŸ™‚
      Thank you again !! πŸ™‚

      1. kislayagopal

        Nitesh urf Jack, you are very versatile individual brimming with creativity, and I liked the perspective in you to look at things from different angles and viewpoints. To stereotype is the worst thing that we do.I appreciate your completely different world view of obsessive lover, and after reading this I became emotional, it may sound funny but it is true…emotional girl I am πŸ™

        The devotion of the possessive lover is unquestionable, now I say after reading this- many crave for such love but few are lucky enough to get such devotion and pyaar.!

        And I also appreciate your spontaniety in creativity, just awesome.

        So here is a request I make: can I treat this wonderful creation of yours as a contribution on my blog?If you give your permission of course!

        1. My Say

          arey dost … anytime !! why requesting ? It will be my pleasure if the emotions of an obsessed lover… gets some care from the world !! After all, as you said ..many actually crave for that devotion .

          well… I dont know honestly about if I even stand anywhere when it comes to be termed even C of creativity but appreciations always put a smile on the face.

          Just felt like defending the misunderstood set of people. πŸ™‚ It was sudden and I never dare to step into the shoes of intellectuals who write beautiful poems and stories. πŸ™‚

          Honestly speaking … even I got emotional reading your lines and then the fingers behaved as if this was the last time I could defend they who are termed possessive and then abondoned for lifetime .. the punishment for being madly in love and normally by the one whom they love so much ! !

          Thank you for sharing the lovely poem .. I feel at ease .. I never knew so much was I longing to defend the ones who are termed possessive in love πŸ™‚

  10. Namrota

    This somehow reminds me of the latest cadbury bournville where the wild tree gulps down the girl who is being too sweet… here the sweetness is thrown up by the guy πŸ˜€ πŸ˜›

      1. namrota

        Ad-ta dekhish… mojar achhe… tui jeta bolli theek otayi okhane dekhaye πŸ˜€
        and seriously too-much-sweetness of people make me throw up like the guy in ur doodle πŸ˜›

  11. Pankti Mehta

    Good humor. But I would also like to point it out that this happens even in other relationships with friends and family members. How to throw that out? I am still wondering about it :-/

    1. My Say

      formula as per me is the same !! Do not over do love so that you take away people’s space unless of course they want you to.. be it parents , friends, partners .. whosoever!!
      One should understand,no matter what , but everyone has a personal space and we should respect that. We may have shared every space with them but expecting the same from others is irrational. They will share the space when they are comfortable or may not share their personal space ever with you throughout lifetime .. that does not mean they do not love you .. or you do not .. that means u do your share as much as you can let go !! It aint simple but this is the only way !! Expectation is a bi product of love and the more we love, the more we expect .While producing Love we should take special care .. that the bi-product is negligible .. hence helping you produce quality love πŸ˜‰

      We love people who give all they have but ask for almost nothing in return .. πŸ™‚ We should be one .. give as much as you can .. and if at all you need anything .. ask your Creator for the same !! πŸ™‚ Life becomes happier and easier and full of contentment,I feel !! πŸ™‚

      1. Pankti Mehta

        I absolutely agree….family and friends forget to give you space and when u demand space, they go to the other extreme, as if you have insulted them…if your family doesn’t understand your space for need, then what? U can’t break up with them…that’s wht i m wondering about.

          1. Pankti Mehta

            U know, it doesn’t always help…i have a friend who is tired of being smothered. She has tried to talk with her family so many times and but no one takes her seriously :(…anyway, life goes on.

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