This post is inspired by co-blogger Jitendra Vaswani’s post on 7 rules to forget someone you love. Although his tips are very serious and practical ones but somehow as my Block phase is over , I found a cartoon knocking my brains while I was reading. Hence I am sharing my words on Break-Ups and the cartoon which knocked off the doors of my brains to come out online ! 😀
Break-Ups are NORMALLY(not always) results of extra consumption of love by any ONE in the couple for the other partner. Extra love leads to extra care, extra care to extra possessiveness, extra possessiveness to extra smothering, extra smothering leads to extra ordinary suffocation and this continues with verbal fights in private and then in public.The cycle continues until BANG – “Break Up !!”notice is being served to the partner who had that extra love issue.
So the moral of the story is either throw up the extra love, daily, you develop for your partner in the washroom or distribute the extra love to someone else as well, without being caught.
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However, if you have already had gone through the ‘break-up process’ repeat the ‘throwing up in the washroom process’ till all the love is flushed out. 😀
What next !! Start Fresh !!
Note – the post is meant to be taken lightly ! 😀
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What you said is exactly true…Though I have not been through such phase and I m lucky and I don’t ever want to come to that phase
hahaha 🙂 !!
Extra dosage of love is injurious to health 😀
That’s what I am cautious.. 😛
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Good one, start fresh, do you mean we start again for a bang!!!
hahaha … learn from the experience and start frsh Vijay Ji 😀 bhavanao ko samjho 😀 😀 😀 😉
MySay ye Bhavana kaha milege, pls jara intro kara dijiye
hahaha… dont worry Vijay ji mei milke apse zaroor intro karauunga 😀
Thank you mysay.
thank you Jitendra 🙂
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LOL!! 😀
Committed people will know it better!! Btw, I’m not one….:P
hahahaha 😀 Vikram you making it public you are a Casanova !! 😀 good good !! 🙂
dara diya 🙁 Break up is the beginning of a new life also… Dil se karo 🙂 Nice cartoon and the post.
hahaha.. kabhi hasaane ka .. kabhi daraane ka .. isich ka naam jindagi hai bhau 😀
hahaha 🙂
thank you AJ your compliments are inspiring for betterment !!
i completely agree with you , when someone gets into a relationship, he/she should be prepared for the best and the worst especially in these times when we see people taking U turns in relationships.Girlfriend gets fat and guy is getting more beautiful girl she gets dumped , other way round if a girl is getting a more rich and good looking guy the boyfriend gets dumped. So why harm yourself and waste your emotions when some mean guy or girl dumps you.
better sing a song Dil Dumping Dumping Dumping Dapaang .. Flirting Flirting Flirting Fatang !! 😀 😀
Sorry I know that was a poor joke !! 😀
this IPL sng with Farah asking people Dance ne ka !! hahaha
Ha ha! But It’s sad actually that relationships which start with so much expectations and promises end up in bundles of sorrow, havoc and hatred……..
Once you were my friend, now u are my foe,
Once i loved everything about you,
Now i hate YOU!
Why did this happen……what went wrong…
was i wrong or was it destiny or was it just lust and not love……
Whatever it may be but i Hate you now and we are done!!!
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Great doodle 🙂
I wrote the remedy for avoiding these hangovers !! Bush !! follow them strictly 😀 😀 ..
Indeed .. its easier said than done .. to hate is obvious ..as its just to hide the love you still have for that special one .. As I say cry out LOUD and as long as you wish to .. on terrace or when alone at home … for 3-5 times .. it sheds away the hangover of gone by relationship .. allows you to forgive.. allows you not to remorse .. allows you to MOVE ON !!
Ha ha ha! I was just trying to be a bit creative in commenting like you but this reply of yours has come as a facepalm! I’ll be careful next time!
he hehe dear it was in General … I did not intended as a remedy for YOU specifically !! 🙂
creative in commenting and me ?? AAhh!! Kabhi nahi !! 😀
LOL! That’s nice depiction of break ups.
thank you so much Sir ! 🙂
Haha! That, along with the fattiest chips, is how I dealt with breakups …It works- the pain of the hangover makes you forget the pain of the break up, and the relief after the hangover’s gone makes you feel happy to be alive… always a positive thought!
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I tried fine tuning myself till my 11th break up Chaitanya and then when the 12th break up took place .. i decided change my path … not like changing preferences .. 😀 🙂 but enjoying singlehood
Until.. my friends suggested me marriage and I opted Blogging !!! 😀 Keeps you equally busy !! Needs all the pamper and love and makes you feel good when people appreciate your blog !! 😀 you also need to be committed ! The best part it never hinted a Break-UP !! 😀 😀
Thanks for dropping by dear friend !!! 🙂
The foot note was perhaps a strategic afterthought…politically correct….but an absolute overkill…your doodle says it all………… Well you do need moms to nurse a broken heart, joint whatever…..
Throwing up in the washroom or getting doused in self pity behind the shower curtain, the tap should always be left open in full force…
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In that case.. i suppose break ups should not occur in summers of India.. specifically if you are not a resident of Bengal, Kerela and North East India.. rest almost all the states face water crises and expecting water through the tap and that too in full force would be too much of a demand 😀 😀 😀
Rain God listen to the urge of break up guys and girls !! 😀
hehehe Indeed Geeta .. it was well thought politically correct 😀 footnote 😀 ! 😉 You catch me easily !!! 😀
Well there are overhead tanks…underground boring…trespass on neighbour’s water harvesting instruments…all legal as well illegal means to get that torrential downpour unless you are in the midst of Thar………….wahaan bhi koi jugaad mil jaaye shayad, y’ never know, we Indians are so adept at getting what we want by hook or by crook.
On a personal note I salute your dry ( wet!!) sense of humour…that’s what probably keeps us going….isn’t it?
🙂 hehehe..
you leave me speechless and hence I am your disciple..
Well, kabhie to aayega uunte pahaad ke neechey D)
hahahahaha 😀 so I am the uunth ?? hahahaha
As always you taken up a serious issue and have politely done the doodling with a moral…yes i too believe people should learn…to unlearn the love that caused them all the troubles…!!!
🙂 thank you Anjan !!
incomplete love should be drained out in any form before it becomes vengeful
OMG !!! gr8
thanks Aparna !:)
That is the perfect way out!
(Your comment box didn’t open for me.)
how dare it Indrani my friend? .. I will take it for a task right away !! I am thankful to you for walking that extra mile commenting … dear friend .. and not get annoyed .. thank you so much .. 🙂
heyy,,great post..
may be we can follow each other….
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Loved the lighthearted logic towards what causes breakups 😀 Nice analysis there 😀
thank you Deepa 😀 at last someone liked my lighthearted logic more than the doodle of throwing up !! Thank you again 🙂
Distribute the extra love!!! 😛
That’s the better idea…why waste the love by throwing up!
you young chaps of the date.. never miss a chance .. we used to be so decent 10 years back 😀 😀 😀 …
we only had a casual girlfriend.. a permanent one and few here and there to flirt with .. 😀 😀
:)))) You write like a Doodle .. any comment here would spoil what you just said… having said that, let me spoil it a bit, and say : I wish we all had more steel in our hearts, na ?
I dont know if thats a compliment dear friend of higher intellect.. but my doodling heart would surely consider it a beautiful compliment.
regarding the heart of steel umm let me see it this way :
A heart of steel ..
with brains thinking glittering gold
our body pure robotic..
never to grow old..
where love was alike amid partners..
trust was never sold..
else better .. be a heart of steel
I say loud and bold 😉
Hahahaha … and more hahahaha .. nice idea ! *THUMBS UP* .. and some more hahaha ..
all the thank yous … all the smiles and yet more smiles .. and a Hi-Five brother Aazi 😉 for liking it 🙂
Wow! you made my day.
that compliment made my day as well Rajesh !! Thank you 🙂
Such a Nice Advice why are we going to take it Lightly. . . I Think It should be included in the School Syllabus. . . 🙂
hahaha.. good idea Sir Ji !! 😉
Well, breakups gotta be dealt with and what better way than this! 😀
indeed Brendan !! at least no better way a doodler can suggest 😀
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts !!
Appreciate it !! 🙂
This too shall pass?
has to !! 🙂
I totally agree wid U… I see New Beginning in Every Ending… 😉 😛
🙂 hehe indeed !!
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts dear friend !! 🙂
Too much of anything is bad. Even of love.
so true !! 🙂
Ha ha funny!!! I love the totally blase approach 🙂
Thank you Jyotsna for those words of appreciation and for dropping by ! 🙂
😀 Nice doodle! Hope u were not the victim of all this mess 😛
nahi re !! but I was never a Casanova too victimizing womankind and forcing them to shed tears for me .. I mean I wanted to .. God never bothered . 😀
hahaha I can understand 😛
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Haha .. another light-hearted take of what some perceive as a serious topic. You never fail to surprise me.
BTW.. I see what you did with the indiblogger title and descrption 😉 _/][\_ bahut sahi 😀
Thank You dear friend … and thanks a ton for noticing the mischievousness on Indi while publishing the post 😀
Some may have thought … thank God at last he left !! 😀 for this month until they may have realized only 5 hrs were left to call it a day !:D
People are entitled to their own opinions, but I for one would have really missed the cartoon doodles if you actually left 🙂
hehehehe Thank you my dear friend !! 🙂
hahaha…sometimes to love is like to drink, so has to vent accordingly 😛
love is ideally as intoxicating as alcohol itself may be more .. i suppose .. better consume a peg or two and only in parties and get togethers 😀
😀 Served the ‘extra-love’ right!
hehehe thank you dear poetess 🙂 I dont believe in wastage though 😀
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3 R’s seem sensible when you find yourself stuck (or maybe smitten by :P) with the 3 W’s!!
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life story for a lot of people!!! 😀 😀
Richa
😀 hahahha so true
Awesome stuff! I have so many ideas for a cartoon but my art is, shall we say “not upto the mark”. Will try some stuff and share!
thanks Ayush/Akhil … I look forward for your work . Do Share 🙂 !!
Pyar ka bhi ek nasha hota hai and it gives us an high..but just as an overdose of alcohol kills..I guess an overdose of love too can smother one..thus killing the beauty of a relationship 🙂 And I love the cartoons !
thank you Renu !!
excess of anything is harmful 😀
Very true! Though I’m single I know the problems lovers face these days since most of my friends are committed 😛 You made a good point. In love everyone are possessive but over-possessiveness isn’t good. One needs to give them the space they need. Let them breathe! Lovely doodle Mysay! 🙂
thanks Valli !! I had my share of say on your post Valli..
what a co-incidence my dear friend 🙂
😀 Not only do I love the depiction, I also love the write up with it. I was going to ask you to do this…you always have such wonderful things to say on my post and I rarely see you express your work in words…do it more often please….great post dear
thank you for that wonderful compliment Sfurti,my dear friend!!
Amid eminent writers ( like yourself 🙂 )it would be too courageous to dare using words to express emotions .. I suppose ! Compliments inspire and inspirations instigate for experiments..however, experiments may go wrong as well 😀 .. Still .. i will no more refrain from using words and sentences and phrases as my weapons of expressing My Say 🙂
Thank you again !! 🙂
Oh yes that is a very apt observation that you have made and the doodle is nice… infact looking at this I was reminded of a poem I wrote some time back…I guess no one likes extra love!! Excess of everything is bad 🙁
So here is the link to my poem, if you like you can have a look
http://evergreenleaf.blogspot.in/2013/04/day-10-unlove-poem-repulsive-love.html
let me see what dear Kislaya has to say on extra bit of love which spoils the tea of affection between couples !! Here I click the link… 🙂
Loved the poem you wrote dear Kislaya !! It was amazing !!
I had my share words expressed out there as well 🙂
Nitesh urf Jack, you are very versatile individual brimming with creativity, and I liked the perspective in you to look at things from different angles and viewpoints. To stereotype is the worst thing that we do.I appreciate your completely different world view of obsessive lover, and after reading this I became emotional, it may sound funny but it is true…emotional girl I am 🙁
The devotion of the possessive lover is unquestionable, now I say after reading this- many crave for such love but few are lucky enough to get such devotion and pyaar.!
And I also appreciate your spontaniety in creativity, just awesome.
So here is a request I make: can I treat this wonderful creation of yours as a contribution on my blog?If you give your permission of course!
arey dost … anytime !! why requesting ? It will be my pleasure if the emotions of an obsessed lover… gets some care from the world !! After all, as you said ..many actually crave for that devotion .
well… I dont know honestly about if I even stand anywhere when it comes to be termed even C of creativity but appreciations always put a smile on the face.
Just felt like defending the misunderstood set of people. 🙂 It was sudden and I never dare to step into the shoes of intellectuals who write beautiful poems and stories. 🙂
Honestly speaking … even I got emotional reading your lines and then the fingers behaved as if this was the last time I could defend they who are termed possessive and then abondoned for lifetime .. the punishment for being madly in love and normally by the one whom they love so much ! !
Thank you for sharing the lovely poem .. I feel at ease .. I never knew so much was I longing to defend the ones who are termed possessive in love 🙂
The ‘last post’ got me … 🙂 Here’s to many more months.
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This somehow reminds me of the latest cadbury bournville where the wild tree gulps down the girl who is being too sweet… here the sweetness is thrown up by the guy 😀 😛
Aami dekhi ni re Ad ta 🙂 …
being too sweet is injurious for health 😉 like too much of love and smoke 😀
Ad-ta dekhish… mojar achhe… tui jeta bolli theek otayi okhane dekhaye 😀
and seriously too-much-sweetness of people make me throw up like the guy in ur doodle 😛
hahahahaha.. 😀
Good humor. But I would also like to point it out that this happens even in other relationships with friends and family members. How to throw that out? I am still wondering about it :-/
formula as per me is the same !! Do not over do love so that you take away people’s space unless of course they want you to.. be it parents , friends, partners .. whosoever!!
One should understand,no matter what , but everyone has a personal space and we should respect that. We may have shared every space with them but expecting the same from others is irrational. They will share the space when they are comfortable or may not share their personal space ever with you throughout lifetime .. that does not mean they do not love you .. or you do not .. that means u do your share as much as you can let go !! It aint simple but this is the only way !! Expectation is a bi product of love and the more we love, the more we expect .While producing Love we should take special care .. that the bi-product is negligible .. hence helping you produce quality love 😉
We love people who give all they have but ask for almost nothing in return .. 🙂 We should be one .. give as much as you can .. and if at all you need anything .. ask your Creator for the same !! 🙂 Life becomes happier and easier and full of contentment,I feel !! 🙂
I absolutely agree….family and friends forget to give you space and when u demand space, they go to the other extreme, as if you have insulted them…if your family doesn’t understand your space for need, then what? U can’t break up with them…that’s wht i m wondering about.
I think talking about this directly and politely should help
U know, it doesn’t always help…i have a friend who is tired of being smothered. She has tried to talk with her family so many times and but no one takes her seriously :(…anyway, life goes on.
Well said buddy. Extra love always evokes disasters!
thank you Sayantani 🙂
Sigh! Memories…